Heard back from Libby, she apologized and actually asked me to be friends in a round about way. I haven't replied yet, not sure how to handle it really. I don't know if the friendship thing would really work...we are at odds on a lot of issues that could get in the way. I have half a mind to write her back thanking her for making me see the light before it was too late and giving me the chance to act on my feelings toward Jen. I would love to rub it in her face and gloat about my success in that area, but I am a bigger person than that, I think. I don't need to make her feel like shit to make me feel better, besides Jen said NO! I guess I'll think about it for a few more days before I decide. Wouldn't want to regret the decision either way down the road. I just need to be careful, there are some serious hard feelings between us and Jen would love to smack her for all the shit she pulled with me, but they might end up getting along, maybe. I just don't know if it's fair to ask Jen to allow me to attempt a friendship with my ex even thought there are no feelings there and jealousy shouldn't apply. I guess the question is would I want her to do it to me? I just don't know! Until I find that answer I should probably back off and think this through.